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For moments that reveal small but powerful choices.
- You’re in a one-on-one. The person shares a cultural or personal detail that you don’t understand. 
 ➡ What question do you ask that shows curiosity without making them explain everything?
- A teammate always opts out of group lunches or social events. 
 ➡ Do you assume disinterest—or explore another interpretation?
- You’re giving a presentation. Someone’s body language looks skeptical. 
 ➡ How do you manage your reaction and stay open to feedback?
- You hear yourself say, “We just need someone who can hit the ground running and not need coaching.” 
 ➡ What assumptions might be buried in that sentence? What would agility sound like instead?
- You’re onboarding someone whose lived experience is nothing like yours. 
 ➡ What’s one question you ask that shows curiosity, not assumption?”
- You’re in a heated meeting. Someone from a different background responds emotionally. 
 ➡ How do you stay effective, not reactive?”
- You’re leading a project team that doesn’t ‘click’ with your usual leadership style. 
 ➡ What’s your next move?”
- Someone mispronounces a colleague’s name for the third time—even after being corrected. 
 ➡ What’s one way to step in that centers respect, not shame?
- A teammate regularly turns off their camera in meetings. You don’t know why. 
 ➡ Do you address it? Assume something? What’s the agile response?
 
                         
            
              
            
            
          
               
            
              
            
            
          
             
            
              
            
            
          
               
            
              
            
            
          
              